Collie- she's getting married in less than a month, and if things are as hectic with her as they were me in the final few weeks before I got married...Only with her they're probably more stressful... Final flower arrangements, final fittings, final bridesmaid dress fittings, bridal showers, bachelorette parties...I can see how it's possible she's not online everyday..then again she IS on my AOL messanger at times.. I think she's just either not up yet or at work maybe?