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No, I don't agree with that. They didn't use jack and Rose to prove anything with love.. it's not a love story.. they neede Rose and Jack to tie first and third class together in the story so they had an actual plot, and not just a story about a sinking ship.

And, I didn't say you had to know everyone's faults or wrong doings.. I was merely pointing out that to be in true love, you have to know those things about somoene and still accept them for who they are.... that's why so many peopole divorce within the first year of marriage, because they can't deal with those things.

I also think it's obvious you've never been in love, or else you'd know that.
To be in love with someone is different than just loving them... TOTALLY different.. and I know people will disagree with that on here.. but, hoenstly, once they experience both, thy'll understad what I mean.
I think you are just falling in love with the romanticism of the movie, which is totally understandable and completely fine.

I also want to point out, you are right to an extent. I do think people fall in love in diffrent time spans... but I do think there IS a time span. I don't think you can fall in love till you're past the puppy love.... I'd say about 3-6 months is past puppylove.
3 days gets you puppylove and lust... and intrigue....

OH! And he let her have the door because he may have been poor, but he was a cordial gentleman....It was proper for man to ensure a woman's safety first.. even though alot of men forgot that on that night, he didn't....
I mean, she was already on it when he found out he couldn't get on.. what's he gunna do, flip it and make her get off it? I think not.




And love definately is something that is built. People in some cultures, and in most past cultures were married in prearranged marriages.... even though they had never met each other prior to their wedding day, they were set for life.. and often times, ende dup loving each other after a period of time. So, it CAN be built, and it CAN just click for some people. It did for jack and Rose, but i refuse to believe they were madtly in love with each other.. they were just infatuated with each other at that point.